The Relationship in 4 Levels
The relationship in four levels was designed by Relaxed Relationships to better understand where we are at all times when it comes to relating to others. But more importantly how to create a shift in the moment which allows the portal for true love to open.
The Division by Four is Common in Many Spiritual Texts
Let’s take A Course in Miracles for example. Below is text quoted directly from the spiritual teaching which lands at the frequency of 600 according to the scientific research of Dr. David Hawkins. This information directly coincides with the four levels as defined by the Relaxed Relationship curriculum as well.
The closed mind believes the present and the future will be the same. This establishes a seemingly stable state that is usually an attempt to counteract an underlying fear that the future will be worse than the present. This fear inhibits the tendency to question at all.
The questioning mind perceives itself in time and therefore looks for future answers.
True vision is the natural perception of spiritual sight, but it is still a correction rather than a fact. Spiritual sight is symbolic, and therefore not a device for knowing. It is, however, a means of right perception, which brings it into the proper domain of the miracle. A “vision of God” would be a miracle rather than a revelation. The fact that perception is involved at all removes the experience from the realm of knowledge. That is why visions, however holy, do not last. In level 3 it’s important to ask yourself if you are choosing safety at loves expense?
The Bible tells you to know yourself or to be certain. Certainty is always of God. When you love someone you have perceived him as he is, and this makes it possible for you to know him. Until you first perceive him as he is you cannot know him. While you ask questions about him you are clearly implying that you do not know God.
Certainty does not require action
When you say you are acting on the basis of knowledge, you are really confusing knowledge (level4) with perception (level 3). Furthermore, knowledge provides the strength for creative thinking, but not for right doing. However, perception, miracles and doing are closely related. Although, knowledge is the result of revelation and induces only thought. Therefore, even in its most spiritualized form perception involves the body. As a result, knowledge comes from the altar within and is timeless because it is certain.
To perceive the truth is not the same as to know it
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