Revelation: Healthy Love vs Unhealthy Love
Are you choosing Healthy Love or Unhealthy Love?
The plane of revelation (also known as the state of reverie) according to the different levels of consciousness, is the effect or revelation of the love relationship. Although love can mean different things to different people, we are referring here to the state of love which is constant and consistent…it is benign…it is ONE. To understand more about the definition of love and the path to revelation visit us here…
The Path to Revelation
Below is the difference between cultivating healthy love, which ultimately leads to the state of revelation, or the choice to perpetuate unhealthy love which ultimately leads to destruction.
Below you will find more information to help you decide what to create, and choose what you want to experience through dating and relationships.
Healthy Love is a choice.
It is something you decide to give as a gift.
It has conditions that shape the self and strengthen the other.
Healthy love is feeling powerful and independent.
It is grilled cheese and vegetable soup on a rainy day but not every day.
Healthy love is patient, kind, and accepting.
Healthy love requires a tremendous amount of responsibility which involves communication on all levels and constant reflection.
It is building trust, having faith, and holding a commitment.
Healthy love promotes growth and two strong containers.
Healthy Love is Rare.
Un-Healthy Love is being powerless, selfish, and enabling.
It has no boundaries.
Unhealthy love is unconditional and yet contingent.
It is immature, irresponsible, and dependent.
Unhealthy love is urgent.
There is desperation behind it which produces manipulation and compromise of self.
Unhealthy love is a pissing contest, a tug of war, a mute silence, and a kickstand.
It is obvious.
Unhealthy love promotes the false self and stunts growth.
Unhealthy love is a drug. ~ Author Unknown
All feelings are generated by the heart and have nothing to do with the body. The heart of the body is the altar at which all your offerings to God are made. All offerings are love or lack of love. Lack of love is nothing. Thus, all offerings made from a place other than love are nothing. All offerings made from a place of fear or guilt are nothing.
~ A Course of Love
All offerings made from a place other than love are nothing . . .