In order for the 7 conditions for true love to find a pathway into your life, you must begin by taking a hard look at yourself.
A Course of Love tells us, You need not concentrate on where to find love, for love will find you. So, in order for love to find you means you must align with your highest Self in every moment. In other words, you need to return to your true natural state so that you can become a vibration match for love.
I don’t think any of us will be surprised to learn that true love cannot exist in extremes. Therefore, begin looking for scenarios in which you are not aligned with your highest Self, and therefore not allowing love to find a pathway into your life.
Below are the 7 Conditions for True Love:
#1 True Love can never come where blame resides.
Remove the log from your own eye in order to see how you are just as guilty of the feelings for which you cast your judgments.
#2 True Love can never come where anger is your knee-jerk reaction.
An attack will only lead to a counter-attack resulting in war and hatred. In every moment a conflict arises lay down your sword. Is revenge what you truly want or is forgiveness a better choice? Which gives you more?
#3 True Love can never come where regret continues to replay the past.
Practice gratitude where depression has taken root. Slowly but surely you will transform the grief of tragedy into a soft current of serenity.
For Nothing but Love can Be the Cause of Joy ~ A Course of Love
#4 True Love can never come from the bondage of lust.
Use discernment as your tool to find meaning in what is temporary versus what is sustainable. This is the path out of enslavement.
#5 True Love can never come where abdication has determined you are more deserving than another.
Open your mind to peace. For patience will afford the time to realize the true potential of another.
#6 True Love can never come where pride has its demands.
Lay aside your ego. You know, the antagonist of drama and inflated stories. Be willing to set a new intention for a more optimistic outcome.
Think you not that reason opposes love, for love gives reason its foundation. ~ A Course of Love
#7 True Love can never come where anxiety lives.
Fear will push you into withdrawal every time. It takes courage to be vulnerable and let go of your past. Take a leap of faith now and trust in the universal process to allow a new experience.
True Love can only happen through instantaneous understanding in the present moment bringing with it no past associations.
In every way, True Love is unlike all previous experiences.
Welcome Home to Your Highest Self, the Reality of Reverie and the 7 Conditions for True Love . . .